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I am writing a novel on the life of a soon-to-be star by the name of Rachel Pulaski, but goes by her "star" name, Rachel Rogers. her father, Vince MacLean, is in cheesy type tv shows "general hospital" and the 21st centuries "james bond" type actor. her mother, now divorced with Vince, is the happy-go-lucky type, not in the biz, but a musician for an independent folk ensemble with her new fiance, Luc Wildberry (fake stage name - Lawrence Williams), and pretty much leaves Rachel and her other daughter, Anna, to Vince and Veronica, Vince's new wife. Veronica Meyers, the talk of the hollywood scene, has starred in many short french films, but is now changing over to the american dramas and Crime-thrillers. Now that Rachel knows she is destined to be a star, she has to overcome her dad's reputation to become her own title and person. She lands a spot on the newest vampire-romance series, Sucks to be Me, on an ABC-like channel, ATN (america's television network). But she soon finds herself offered jobs Angelina and Drew B. would die for! not to mention "innocent" 14-yea-old Anna is caught backstage kissing the shows leading man! here is the beginnging of the story. they are at their father's movie premiere, Land of the Unspoken, a mystery...
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My daughter is 10 1/2 months old. She's had at least 4 ear infections since March-April. I usually never see the same doctor when we go in with these ear infections, because I usually take her in as a walk-in, and we see whoever is on call.
*I suffered with ear infections when I was a small child. I remember having at least one ear infection every 3-4 months. I was in terrible pain. We tried every thing. Finally when I was 9, I was sent to an ENT, who suggested tubes. I felt better afterwards. I didn't have the ear infections so frequently
My question is to those mothers/fathers/guardians of children you have tubes in their ears.
How many ear infections did your child have to suffer until the doctor decided tubes were best?
Did the tubes actually help?
How old was your child?
Since we never see the same doctor for these infections, should I make an appointment with an ETN? Or do I just let the pediatrician handle it?
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This is a snippet from a story my friend and I are writing, and I want to know how other people (outside of our little inside joke world) perceive this. It is Harry Potter related, as you'll probably realize. We just used J.K. Rowling's world as the setting. Here's what's going on: Rosetta married Gilderoy Lockhart's brother, who died, and now she wants to marry Gilderoy for money. But she soon finds out that Gilderoy has already found a wife...
"Darling, we're going out today," Rosetta announced, prancing into Valencia's room and drumming her Deadly Scarlet fingernails on her daughter's vanity.
"Where to?" Valencia put down the tube of pink lipstick she had been applying and looked up at her mother.
"The Leaky Cauldron. It's a pub in London. We're meeting your uncle Gilderoy there, as I've told you already."
Valencia sighed and rubbed her lips together. "When are we leaving?"
"Now," Rosetta said without hesitation. "Or as long as it takes to pack. You might want to overpack." She grinned diabolically at her fingernails. "I expect we'll be away for quite some time."
An hour later, Valencia and Rosetta stood in front of the Lockhart mansion, both clutching their luggage.
"Are we Apparating, Mother?" Valencia asked.
"Not all the way, no, but we will Apparate to the dock. We will be traveling by Le Sottomarino del Cavaliere."
Valencia automatically translated the Italian to English in her mind. "The Knight Submarine." She frowned. Traveling by sea made her sick.
"Exactly." Rosetta pulled out her pocket mirror and redid her mascara. "We're off."
12. Le Sottomarino del Cavaliere, on which the Original Pun is Lost Entirely
Le Sottomarino del Cavaliere turned out to be a dingy little watercraft with one tiny porthole and a single smeared, cracked window. It was rusty and dented, and looked as though it might collapse if submersed in water.
They were greeted at the entrance by a greasy-haired youth with a severe acne problem.
"Ackerley Shunpike, at your serveece," he announced in a clearly fake Italian accent. He surveyed the newest passengers and let out a low, awestruck whistle. He bowed so low that his cap fell off.
"I reserved our quarters in advance. Gerrard is the name." Rosetta sniffed, apparently disapproving of the submarine's staff. Greasy people repulsed her.
Ackerley consulted the list in front of him and looked up at Rosetta and Valencia with a satisfied smirk. "First class, no? Ah, yes, of course. Right dis way, lovely ladees." The two handed their luggage over to a burly young man, who promised to make sure it reached their destination safely. That out of the way, Ackerley motioned for the two women to climb through the porthole.
Valencia stared at her mother. They were actually getting into this piece of junk? And what was 'first class' supposed to mean? Sailing across the ocean in a garbage can for a month would have been more comfortable than spending a couple of hours in that metal disaster.
"Go, Valencia," Rosetta ordered.
Valencia shut her eyes so she wouldn't have to look at the slime that decorated the edges of the porthole. Then, stepping carefully so she wouldn't dirty her cashmere pants, she squeezed through it.
When Valencia had imagined the inside of the Knight Submarine, she had pictured a tiny, enclosed space with hardly enough oxygen to breathe and the view of a polluted ocean through the grimy window.
How very wrong she was. When she entered through the tiny porthole, Valencia saw to her amazement that it looked nothing like the inside of a Muggle submarine at all. In fact, it bore an uncanny resemblance to her own mansion home, and was at least ten times as large. She gazed at her surroundings in utter astonishment, wondering just how many undetectable expansion charms had been used to create this king among submersibles. Intricately patterned rugs and carpets covered the floor, balconies and staircases led to oak doors with brass handles and knockers, and waiters (all of whom were Italian models) strode to and fro among the countless circular tables, bearing trays of food to satisfy passengers' appetites. A fountain in the center of it all gently spewed crystal-clear water into its marble basin, which drained right into the ocean and repeated the cycle. Beneath a moving oil painting of a cherub feeding grapes to a puppy, a group of musicians played.
Valencia stood frozen in shock.
"Eet's nice, eesn't eet?" Ackerley said from his position at her right.
Valencia only nodded. She was lost for words.
"Take us to our lodgings," Rosetta said imperiously, and they set off, Ackerley leading, Rosetta trailing at the rear.
Ackerley insisted on walking next to Valencia, something that greatly annoyed her. He kept glancing at her expectantly and raising one eyebrow, as if waiting for her to flirt with
with him. Something that was hard to understand, since his appearance wasn't appealing by anyone's standards.
On the down side, she attracted unwanted attention from the male passengers without doing anything at all. Their waiter at dinner had called her "Hey, gorgeous." Then, as they passed the orchestra, the violinist winked at her. Men turned their heads to stare at the two part-veelas wherever they went. A boy of fifteen had asked for Rosetta's owl number(?), and one elderly wizard flirted with Valencia for a quarter of an hour before his furious wife dragged him away.
Valencia supposed she should have been amused by all of this, but it got to be unbearably annoying after the first day. When her mother informed her that they still had two more days to endure aboard the submarine, she had to bite her tongue to keep back a scream of frustration.
"So, Hackerknee," Valencia said finally, butchering his name on purpose, "how did you come to work aboard Le Sottomarino del Cavaliere?"
"It is Ackerley, Signora, but you may call me whatever you pleese." He grinned, showing crooked yellow teeth. Valencia bit her lip but didn't recoil.
"Oh, I figured spending a leetle time away from home would do me good," Ackerley answered as they started up a gracefully winding staircase. "My leetle brother was always de favorite, de one who got all the attention." He grimaced. "Just because he was the conductor on dat stoopid bus." He leaned to the side and spat on the carpeted floor below. Rosetta's eyes widened in alarm, and she blew on her fingernails, ready to use them should the need crop up.
Seeing her expression, Ackerley chuckled. "Anyway," he resumed, "I flew out here, by broom, you know, got dis job, ditched de Cockney accent. Wasn't hard to doo." He licked his disgusting teeth. "I like dis Italian food, I like eet a lot."
Valencia swallowed convulsively and moved forward to walk three steps ahead of him.
At last, they reached the landing, and mother and daughter stumbled forward quickly, eager to get away from Ackerley. But fortune was not on their side.
"Dis way, if you pleese, Signoras," he said, grabbing Valencia's arm and pulling her to the left. Rosetta was about to exclaim in anger, but at that moment, her cherry red heels skidded a little too hard against the carpet, and the resulting friction knocked her over.
"Lissen, lady, are you..sing'le?" Ackerley whispered in Valencia's ear, taking advantage of Rosetta's momentary distraction. In his haste, he quite forgot to use his fake-o Italian accent. "'Cos you know, I'm avai'able."
He was so close Valencia could smell the garlic on his breath. "Actually, I'm engaged," she said a little too loudly, starting to feel nauseous. "To a wizard...from Peru." She wriggled out of his grasp. "And, anyway, you're...not my type."
Valencia's journey onboard Le Sottomarino del Cavaliere had its ups and downs. On the plus side, the food was delicious and her sleeping quarters definitely passed as 'first class.'
The last couple of days at sea passed almost uneventfully, except for the fact that Valencia kept receiving sappy love letters from a Mr. Ackerson (It wasn't hard to guess who her secret admirer was). When she and Rosetta finally stepped off the submarine at a secret Wizarding dock near London, she almost collapsed on the road.
"Ciao!" Ackerley Shunpike called cheerily as the submarine descended back under the water's surface.
"That man," Rosetta muttered angrily. "Throwing himself at your feet as if he hasn't got anything better to do with his life. It's disgusting."
Valencia had seen Rosetta throw herself at the feet of countless men in a similar way, but knew better than to mention it.
Their luggage was delivered to them outside the Leaky Cauldron by the same burly young man. Valencia wondered why he didn't try to flirt with her, too, but was grateful for it.
She started for the door of the pub, but Rosetta grabbed her by the collar and hauled her back.
"Have you lost your mind?!!" she shrieked, and dragged her daugher behind the shop next door. "I haven't finished putting on my make-up! I can't go in there and have Gilderoy see me like this!"
"It's so nice to have fans," Gilderoy went on. "But when you're this good-looking, it isn't a surprise when twenty fan letters arrive a day." His eyes went out of focus. "I've sometimes wondered if there's another reason for it, but..." He trailed off. "Do you know why I'm so popular?"
"No..." Rosetta's answer was vague, hardly an answer at all, but Gilderoy just smiled at her and proceeded to tell her about all the fan letters he had received, explaining how this witch or that had complimented him on his new robes, how he was always asked how he got to be so handsome, et cetera, et cetera.
All this time, Valencia sat back in her chair and tried to ignore all the stares she was attracting. She ignored her ex-uncle's rambling until it reached a point where it started to get very interesting.
Valencia watched her mother beautify herself for a full twenty minutes. Then she had to wait while Rosetta fished in her suitcase for a purse that matched her outfit.
Finally, Rosetta ended her beauty session and stalked into the Leaky Cauldron, Valencia trailing behind her.
Everyone stopped talking to watch the two unbelievably beautiful women enter the pub. Tom the barman stopped wiping out a used tankard; tiny old Tiberius Ogden halted in his discussion with Beatrice Bloxham on children's rights. Even the most stoic of wizards gaped at the Italian part-veelas.
Only one voice echoed in the silence. "Ah, you must be Rosetta Lucia Gerrard!"
Gilderoy Lockhart stood up and strode forward to shake Rosetta's hand.
"I was ever so pleased to learn that I have a brother," he said enthusiastically, seemingly unfazed by her outstanding beauty. He wrung her hand as if he intended to break it off and take it with him.
Then, quite suddenly, the excitement seemed to drain from him. He let her hand fall again, and his handsome features appeared to droop before his audience.
"Well, I had a brother," he said in a mournful voice. Tears began to form in those twinkling blue eyes of his. His gloom was so apparent that he seemed almost to be wilting.
"Gilderoy, what has happened to you?" Rosetta demanded, confused and a little scared. She grabbed his shoulders and shook him. "You know your brother. Why is his death such a shock? I assumed you were informed of it--"
"He really did die?" Gilderoy whimpered. "So, it's true, the brother I had and didn't remember is dead." He collapsed against Rosetta.
"Gilderoy! GILDEROY!" Rosetta grabbed his ears by the tips of her fingers and pried him off of her. "What's wrong with you?!"
"He's dead! My brother is dead!" Gilderoy moaned.
Rosetta couldn't remember a time when she had felt this utterly bamboozled. Why was Gilderoy acting as though he had just recovered from a particularly odd case of amnesia? But she wasn't a stupid woman; in fact, she was quite clever, so she speedily concocted a plan and put it into action.
"No, Gilderoy dearest, your brother is not dead, you never had a brother," she said quickly, hoisting him into a standing position and looking him directly in the eye. "Now, you mustn't grieve for a person who never existed."
Gilderoy stopped whimpering and nodded. "I suppose...yes, it is a little silly."
Using incredible strength for her dainty size, Rosetta steered Gilderoy back to his table and plopped him into a chair. "Sit," she commanded, settling herself next to him. Her plan had been to flirt with him almost incessantly, until he thought he was in love and begged her to marry him. But it seemed that her hopes of marrying a man with his mind intact seemed to have been dashed; it was plain to see that Gilderoy was falling apart. She wondered what had happened to bring about this catastrophe.
"So, Gilderoy," she said, sounding perfectly composed, although her insides were churning with frustration, "how are you?"
"Oh, I'm doing just splendidly. The Manor is in good shape, I'm healthy, my memory's a little faint here and there, but I'm just as gorgeous as I've always been." He ran a finger through his golden hair and winked at Rosetta. Then he narrowed his eyes and studied her more closely. "Do I know you?"
"No," Rosetta lied. "This is our first meeting...but I have the feeling we'll be...er...great friends." She smirked.
"How wonderful!" Gilderoy said happily. "It's so nice to meet a new friend, isn't it?"
"Yes, it most certainly is," Rosetta agreed emphatically. "Especially one as handsome as you."
"I know," Gilderoy giggled. "I'm quite the guy, aren't I?"
"Yes, Gilderoy." But Rosetta wasn't looking at him. She was staring down at her fingernails, which were smoking again. "Yes, you are."
"Traps?" 'Gil' said cluelessly. "I don't see any traps." Then he smiled and winked knowingly. "You're a lion hunter, aren't you?" He chuckled and said, as though informing a foolish child that leprechauns don't exixt, "There aren't any lions here, silly, this is London!"
Rosetta rolled her eyes. "I'm not a monster, and I'm not a lion hunter."
"If we're speaking metaphorically, then yes, you are a lion hunter, and if we're speaking in the normal way, then yes, you are a monster!" Narcissa said; there was almost steam rising off of her, she was so furious.
"Say that again," Rosetta challenged coldly, standing up to face her.
"I'll do more than that," Narcissa said in a deadly whisper. Snatching a bowl of steaming soup from a nearby table, she cried, "MONSTER!!" and poured the hot contents down the front of Rosetta's genuine leopard fur coat.
Sorry, it's really long. And you might not get some of it because parts of it are a little inside-jokey. I just need an opinion, because I might show it to friends not in on the jokes.
Have you ever had one of those weeks that just one bad thing after another happens or just depressing things in your life? Too many goodbyes, too little hugs? I am having one of those and I am so happy it is finally Friday. Sorry for making more of an update but I need a little venting and I'm sure you do as well so in your answer vent a little, relieve a little stress. I need someone to complain to, so here goes...
On Sunday my oldest daughter moved in with her fiance which is very nice and a big step and I am proud of her but I miss her at home. On Monday she invited us all over for dinner and announced she is pregnant, it's just so overwhelming for me at least and I know she'll make a wonderful mother but for heavens sake, I am only 39!! On Tuesday my oldest son called me from Italy telling me that him and his girlfriend were doing great and were staying an extra month studying abroad. Later that day I got a call from the school that my 14 year old had been knocked unconscious in a fight in the locker rooms that she happened to get in the middle when she tried to stop it. She had a concussion and had to stay overnight for observation. When I got home my 11 year old was throwing up, the following morning so was my 12 year old. Then I had to pick up my 14 year old and drive her home and then drive back to see my 5 month old and sit with him for a while before his surgery. After my husband arrived at the hospital for the baby to get out of surgery I had to go home "to get sleep" and the kids were still sick. Then yesterday morning after getting my sick kids settled I left for the hospital while my husband left for work (and I regrettably left my 18 year old with my sick 11 year old, 12 year old & 14 year old while she did school work) and I got onto the parkway and some guy rear ended me. The cops came and all that and we filed a report but I had to get out of there to see my baby and I just left in the car, it wasn't that bad anyway but so I got to the hospital only to find out that the baby has in infection at incision site and had to be put on antibiotics that turned his skin a pale yellow color and wouldn't let him hold down foods so he had a g-tube put in. Then I got home and my 3 kids were trashing the house and my 18 year old was practically ripping her hair out (which I felt so bad about =(). This morning my baby was put in a medically induced coma and his organs are showing signs of failure. There is nothing I can do, I am supposed to be sleeping but how can I? I want to be with my baby, but he isn't there, it just doesn't seem like him right now. The doctors are working as hard as they can and I trust them but I have to trust them. I am useless right now. All of my kids are passed out and it's only 7:25. Life is just very hard. I wish that my oldest son was here and I wish that my two oldest daughters were living with us. I wish that kids were nice to each other, you couldn't get sick and that my little boy was healthy. My life is just so out of order and I don't know how to get back in order.
How do YOU cope with weeks like this? Are you having one of those weeks? How was your day? How are YOU feeling? And mommies, do a little something nice for yourself in this upcoming week, you all deserve it. Cheers~ Tori
I enjoy writing, but I always get a bit stuck when it comes to making introductions hook people into the story. So I have devised a little web-poll, asking everyone to rate this extract (bearing in mind it hasn't really been edited) as either "interesting" or "not interesting". Other comments will be useful too. So, here it is...
The day my mother was kidnapped began with me toppling out of bed. A strange anomaly for someone with a king size bed, but believe me, it happened. And the fact my cata��s food dish was placed exactly where my head landed on the floor certainly didna��t help my mood.
The rest of the morning wasna��t much better. After having a soak in our new bathtub and attempting to cover the smell of jelly-meat with strawberry shampoo, I slipped on the bath mat. And cream-coloured bathroom tiles arena��t exactly soft.
When I had breakfast my mum had specially prepared for me, I spilt syrup over my uniform. When I went to brush my teeth, I accidentally grabbed the wrong tube and squirted zit cream all over my toothbrush. When I looked outside my bedroom window, I found Ia��d missed the bus. On top of that, it was raining.
a�?Hey, honey, whata��s going on at school today?a�� asked mum, handing me my lunch a�� a thermos flask of chicken casserole a�� and a mug of hot chocolate. a�?Anything interesting?a��
I shrugged. a�?Besides having art and history, nothing.a�� I was almost guaranteed a boring day. Maths, physics, and home economics a�� enough to make you retch. I loved art, and for some reason history, home economics was okay, but physics and maths were my two least favourite subjects. One of them was just...well, maths, while the other was just maths in disguise. Strange how the daughter of one of the most successful businessmen and accountants of our times hated maths almost as much as she hated stepping in horse manure.
My father began his successful business empire when he began purchasing out-of-business boutiques and shops from central London with money loaned to him by his wealthy father, converting them into new, state-of-the-art cell phone stores boasting the premise that they a�?Can connect anywhere, anytime, anydaya��. By the end of it, everyone in the UK had a phone emblazoned with the brand 'RapidFire' and dad had sold his company in a billion-dollar deal. Simple.
Currently he was sitting on the couch in a business suit, drinking coffee and reading a book that looked suspiciously like Little Women, but I couldna��t be sure. He looked up as I tossed my schoolbag onto the couch.
a�?Arena��t you supposed to do the schoolbag-tossing after school?a�� he questioned.
a�?Well...,a�� I began uncertainly.
a�?You missed the bus again, didna��t you?a��
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And the extract ends there. If you can't be bothered writing out a full review, I'll settle for just "interesting or "not interesting".
Thanks,
Chloe
I am asking about what form (pills, the shot, tubes tied, hysterectomy,iud,etc) worked best for you and what made you come to that decision if it was a permanent form of birth control?
I am a mother of a 9 year old daughter and 5 and a half week old son and we do not think we want anymore.
I have been on depo shots and the pill during the gap between my daughter and son..i know the pros and cons to them just want other options and opinions...thanks
I have been on depo shots and the pill during the gap between my daughter and son..i know the pros and cons to them just want other options and opinions...thanks
I would love some feedback to the question was I borne mental or did my mother have some "fault" as to the way I am now because of her physical and mental abuse since I can remember. I have always been the evil black-sheep middle child since I can remember. She introduced me people at family parties and get together such as dinners and such as "this is my crazy daughter that has this and that. She did not think anything was wrong with this and for many years neither did I. Any input on how to handle this? Is my mental illness; anorexia, bi-polar, self abuser, depressed and anxious adult all my fault or did she have some influence in that matter? My father loved me and tried to protect, help, do anything for me when he was alive. I remember a last kiss on my cheek right before he died and I said I love you daddy- he had trash so he mouthed I loved you too with tears in his eyes, and would not let go of my hand. I loved that man-he was myimportantlyor, and most importantaly my father who cared a great deal about me. How long does this broken heart with a huge whole in it start to heal? I can't even function properly since his funeral because of added stress. I was a non person to my mother. I can not even remember a "happy" memory with her no matter how hard I try. She hated me and said as much-I think because mspirallingfavored me so much he sometimes I guess I monopolized his time. Was she Jealous? As a result I have been a cutter for 25 years, since I was eight. My mother always treated me like I was non existent and I believe that is when I became a self abuser, with many other issues like an eating disorder. She has called me fat when I was 100lbs and I am 5'5 and have gained weight after that comment sent me into a spiraling eating disorder bottoming out at 59lbs. I am now on a peg which is selfeding tube that keeps me alive. The anorexia is a mean beast worse than the addiction of cutting myself to make my emotions go away. I hate the feeding tube but it is mandatory. I have to have it until my doctors think that I have maintained a healthy weight for a period of time. I feel extremely fat at 83-86lbs (this depends on what time of day I way myself. I recently relapsed on cutting myself. I had not slef abused in that way for 5 years until my dad passed away and my mother told me to get lost and not come back around now that my father who loved me was gone. She went as far to say in a legal form from her lawyer that if she saw my car in the same city as hers she would get a restraining order. I tried to commit suicide the night of my fathers wake after she physically and mentally assaulted me because I dropped my sister off at her house-she made it quite clear that I was no longer part of the family. Then I got that terrible letter. I have been extremely depressed...despite medication and can't quite cope with anything. I fell like I have lost my mother, brother, sister, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. No one wants to talk to me since she clearly doesn't want me alive.; They were my extended family that I had a great relationship before my dad passed and my mother threatened me with restraining order. I was told they all trying to help her cope with her loss. They should know what they already do that my mother was waiting for freedom since my dad started going downhill from m.s 9 years ago. Shes out celebrating from what it sounds like. She did not even shed a tear at his wake or funeral, or ones since as I have been told from people who do not have the wool over their eyes as with most of my relatives. These are my dads good friends that know the truth about her non-caring attitude about my father. They want nothing to do with her. What do I do?
I purchased Hyland's Teething Gel for my 3 1/2 month old daughter and I am wondering what the deal is here. The first time I gave it to her, she was tired and ready for bed and she fell to sleep very quickly. I just thought that it worked and relieved her pain enough for her to sleep. Then yesterday my mother-in-law was watching her and called me and asked if I had some teething gel, so she used it on her and said that it seemed to work. I thought...GOOD! Well now today I gave her another dose...she shouldn't have been sleepy and yeah, it knocked her out COLD! She woke up and seems groggy, kinda like she can't keep her eyes opened. I called the my mother in law and she said that it made her go to sleep right away.
The thing that struck me as odd was the statement right on the tube of gel..."Please note, if your baby has been crying or has been very upset, your baby mat fall asleep after using this product because the pain has been relieved and your child can rest." Why state that? It seems odd to me!!!!
I researched belladonna which is an ingredient and it doesn't look so good. It is basically poison! It can be used as a sedative. WHY would they put this in anything...especially teething gel for a BABY?? Did anyone else experience anything like this? Also my daughter had a mucusy BM with a tinge of red blood in it last night. I am wondering if it's the belladonna?? I did let the Dr. know and if it happens again I am to take her in. Any insight please? No crude or rude remarks please!
i was told i was to I young!.....I had a high risk pregnancy, a cerclage and was put on bed rest rest at 10 weeks!...and still had my daughter at 26 weeks.I was told that all my pregnancy would be high risk!...so confused, why wouldn't they tie my tubes!
Can you after just one child have either your tubes tied or your husband get a vasectomy?
First of all I haven't decided anything yet. But please keep an open mind.
I'm currently on partial bedrest and not sure what is going on. If anything.
But after the baby is born, if it turns out there was a complication. (I go on the 29th to see for sure if there was a complication or not going on....currently I am on bedrest)
Anyways if that is the case, part of me feels maybe its best that chyler be our only child.
I don't know if its worth getting pregnant again in the future, have the same thing happen again, and risk Chyler losing her mother over it.
I'm praying that what they saw on the ultrasound was nothing and its something I don't have to consider. I'm also praying that everything is fine for my daughters sake because she is all I've ever wanted and I want her here safely.
But part of me feels if there is a complication and I do get my daughter here safely than maybe I shouldn't temp fate.
i was kind of hoping that maybe in 5 years we could try again for a boy. But I would be perfectly happy to just have my daughter. (Not to mention she may be all we can afford) And at the same time we had already pretty much planned on just having one child. But we were going to wait 5 years before making a decision
Sorry to be such a downer but I'm just thinking about the what ifs.
While trying to stay positive at the same time.
Aside from my husband, Chyler is the single most important person in the world to me. So I have to figure out what is going to be best for her in the long run.
I was an only child for 10 years and loved it so I don't think growing up as an only child is a big deal. Infact she would have more opportunities, chances for a better education, she would get to travel more. And she would have her parents undivided attention.
So sorry to be a downer but I was just curious.
ADD: again I'm praying everything is fine because this is a decision I don't want to have to make yet
I am 28 years old; I have two daughters (5 and 8) and I am blissfully married and have been with my husband for 10 years. I tend to not really care about what people think about how I look (5'7'' about 155 lbs--killer legs and boobs and not too chubby actually). My question is: Am I too old to wear certain things. An example of a daily outfit:
Work out shorts
Knee High Tube socks
Shox or Nike Sandals
Coordinating Racer back tank top (often layered)
Coordinating Hoodie.
Again, I have chin length platinum blond hair with Neon Pink ends about 2 inches long and various strands of pink in my side swept bangs. I rock my wedding band only on my left hand but jewelry usu all consists of skull and cross bones (I consider them a warning for people attempting to piss me off!!).
The reason I ask is my mother asked me if I was ever going to grow up..not that I really care but it just made me question my appearance.
Thanks for the tips and advice!
What exactly happens to a person with multiple organ failures?
I'm wondering because my mother in law died the other day from this. She was an alcoholic and she started getting jaundiced a week or so ago. Now a week and a half later, she's gone. I didn't want to intrude on everyone and ask questions because it just didn't seem appropriate. I stayed in the background, but I overheard doctors and nurses say things like, she had internal bleeding that they couldn't stop, she was taken off of anesthesia but she wouldn't wake up, her liver stopped functioning, then her kidneys went, then her heart started acting erratic and her pulse was barely detectable. By then everyone had gathered around and the doctors removed her breathing tube and she passed quickly.
But what exactly happens to a person when their organs fail? Was she in pain? Could she have understood us and heard us speaking to her and saying goodbye? What happens to somebody's brain when their organs fail? What happens when a liver stops functioning?
I need some closure. I didn't get to say goodbye to her because she wasn't my mother, or my sister, or my daughter, so I didn't want to ask anyone if I could. I felt like an intruder the whole time, but I miss her and wish I could have said goodbye. She was my daughter's grandma after all.
If there are links to some articles on this sort of thing, please post them. If you can explain it in detail, then go for it.
I do understand quite a bit of medical lingo. So if you care to explain in deep detail, then I'd be very appreciative to hear.
I'm a mother of a 10 yr old daughter, eight year old son, and nearly 5 month old son.
I never thought about having a tubal ligation. I always thought that God has given me the ability to bear children and so I dont want to take that away. I've dealt with miscarriage and this also encouraged the thought of never tying my tubes.
Well, I'm a single mother (finally left daddy for good during my last pregnancy.) I always wanted a bigger family (5 kids,) but now I don't want to have more kids because it would be with a different man (I'm done with the daddy for good) and this would be years down the road and by then I'll be in my mid-30's, my kids will be grown, etc etc. I'm not sure if I even want to go through trusting another man after having this relationship fail decade and a half later, (but who knows..)
I really think that I dont want anymore kids now and I want to be a foster parent in a few years (after my finances are secured.)
Anyway, opted to get the Mirena. This was my last birth control option (bad with hormones - too many side effects) and I've tried just about everything there is.
I hate the Mirena. I'm nursing (breast-feeding) my son. I was told it would not affect my milk supply but it has. I was told I may bleed for a few weeks but it's continued and I got the mirena in June. Because of the bleeding, my iron is low and because I nurse my son, his iron is now low too.
I'm afraid about getting the mirena removed and having a tubal ligation. What if I change my mind about having more kids? I'm afraid of going through surgery ('m soooo scared of being out to sleep - I hate all medications because of how they make me feel - I even went through labor 3 times with out medications because I dont like needles or meds.
Any advice?
What would you do?
Do any of you have the mirena? how do you feel about that?
Have any of you had a tubal ligation or want to? How do you feel about it?
Do any of you know what the procedure is for a tubal? HOw long in the hospital, any pain afterwards, etc. etc.
Anything any of you can tell me is greatly appreciated!
So,this is my low down of my recent story.I am a mother of a 12yr.old son and a 5 yr.old daughter.I had my tubes tied in Jan.2004, two months after my daughter's birth.I had my last period that started very weird for me.Two days prior, I spotted brownish color thinking okay,my period is coming but usually I start off red.(Sorry for detailing but this may help me)then my period commenced somewhat slowly on Aug.15th and lasted about 2 days.Then that Monday night the pain I was getting in my lower back was immense.I couldn't go into work the next day.I usually cramp and bloat like anyone else but the lower back pain was harsh.Once Tuesday was here of that week,when I was done my aunt flo,I mainly get one day of remaining left period (liner) and good to go.My periods lasts lately 3-4 days only but this was different.For 3-4 after I was done, I was spotting brown again but only when I wiped after I peed,nothing on my liner.Then all these things were happening to me incl.the lower back pain that hasn't gone away yet.I got pinching in the pelvic( lower area too) at times sharp like someones stabbed me.Then nausea kicked in,fatigue and light headiness at times.I have been napping every day as I was off work for a week by my doctor because of all the tests and symptoms I have been getting.I feel bloated most of the time,a few times constipated but nothing major.I had a few days of vomiting and sometimes I can hold back but feel queasy if I do.One day,it was 3 times and I have no flu either.I recently feel my breasts heavy and sensitive but not overly.Nipples tender somewhat to the touch too.I went for blood work,urine samples all with my own Family Doctor and because all came back for no infections,etc.She examined me and found my uterus,bladder area sensitive,keeping in mind,no kidney stones,appendicitis,U.T.I.(which I had once and know what that is! Ouchies!) and peeing at times more excessive than normal.The doctor even checked a bowel test,etc.EVERYTHING is OKAY.The ultrasound shown nothing at all and ovaries are fine too.They can't detect if tubes were still tied by the ultrasound to what she told me that they can't.She is stomped right now and I think the ultrasound was too early to determine if I am pregnant if that's the case.My next period is due around the 10-12th of Sept.I have usually a 26 day cycle.I am lost and confused beyond belief.I've heard stories about having tubes tied over a period of time can open the clamp.I did 3 HPT but negative and aware it may be too soon.My son took 5 weeks after my missed period after a false blood test too.My daughter was positive HPT the day after my missed period.I need some guidance and info. that anyone can possibly find for this situation regarding possible pregnancy after tubes been tied.I can't find a good websites anywhere about this.I know it's best I have to wait on if I miss my period but all my symptoms were sudden and point to this but scared too.My b.f. is pumped cause he's got no kids but my own if I am prego and sees all what I am going through and knows I am not myself.Can anyone help with this matter please. I am seriously stomped especially since all my tests were fine to rule out any infections,etc.My Dr. said if worsen that I can keep going to get more blood work,urine tests but it's getting silly.I think she was really baffled about this and told me obviously to avoid any alcohol and take tylenol for pain till this is resolved.I always missed my period for my first two kids and never felt this drained out and my b.f. brothers are twins too.Can this be a high probability as well??Please any advise would be helpful from any mothers or people you know may have similarities to what I am going through.One thing is for sure a woman knows her body and I am definitely not the same at all since then.Thanks!
I'm single mom of wonderful three kids. I have a son that be turning 8 in December. He has ADHD speech problems and was born with cleft palate. He have one more surgery this year for while. I have a 5 year old son that born with mild hearing loss in both ears that has to wear hearing aide's. Then I have wonderful baby girl she be 9 months old on September 1. She a failure thrive baby with a feeding tube. I have to feed her every three hours by her doctor order. She gaining weight help of the feeding tube.
I am stay home mom that gets social security and both of boys get SSI. I was planning to go back to work part time but when I got pregnant I changed my mind. I planning not to go back because of the problems of my baby girl and daycare wouldn't take a baby that has a feeding tube. She would only eat for me.
Back in March I decided to live with my parents for help. Then my daughter doctor decided to call children service on me. They took my baby way from me. We no longer see that doctor anymore. She see a new doctor. My mom got temporary custody of her. Then back July I got back to custody. Ever since I lived with my parents. Me and my mom had two major fights. One time her holding me back and pushed. The second fight we had I try to walk away before anything started. She pulled on my arm to hold me back and pour water over me and pulling my hair. I pulled her hair back to get her to stop. I was defanding myself. Now she went to far.
This morning she had asked me where my money is going. I told her I was saving money to get my car fixed. I need new brakes and other thing my car need fixed. My mom was demanding to see that money. Second of all she was asking me who williamson. It my boyfriend last name I told her it was a friend and I am not sending him money. She was going to report my friend to sheriff which I told her he a friend and I'm not sending him money in the mail. I had asker her she hire something to watch me. She said no but when my baby girl was in the hospital some how she got into my email address without me knowing and got all this stuff. She printed out. She really went out to far. She been demanding who i text every night. It not her business and I pay my own cell phone bill. Found out I have no car insurance. And she going to call social security to stop paying me saying I abusing it. Which not true. She going to call my kids caseworker to take me back to court me move out and my kids live with her. Since the kids would be taken away from me. Which not true. I am not unfit mother. She wanting to know who texting me every day. I told her a friend and she doesn't need to know who the person is. She told me I can't use any of her stuff. Second of all the stove and refrigerator in my parents house is mine I paid for and came from my old house. I can no longet stay with my parents. They putting me into stress and they not helping me in no way at all. Second of all I am do all the cleaning and they don't help me when it their house. And I think it not healthy for me and my children to stay there. I want to look for my own place. The problem is dealing with children service still. I want to tell them the whole story before my mom tells them. I want them to know I can handle my kids on my own. Right now my boyfriend doesn't know want going on. I am waiting for him to come online. What can I do. I'm over stress because of it. I can't stand living there anymore. Right now I am at my friend house with all three of my kids. And my car still at their house till I get insurance on it again when I get paid. Thanks.
I am 28 year old and I am adult. My dad was backing her up.
No I don't do drug and I don't take them. My boyfriend out of town right now. I was born with cleft palate and my other son dad has mild hearing loss. my baby girl was perfect and didn't expect this to happen.
My daughter is 11months, and she has had 5 double ear infections back to back, when I took her to an ear,eye,throat specialist. She passed her hearing test, and they said the pressure in the air when the pumped it was good. But it is my decision to give it the okay to proceed. What are the effects? What if I don't do the tubes, and she continues getting the ear infections. My mother says cause she is cutting teeth, thats why she is getting the ear infections. She still doesn't have any teeth.
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My daughter is 11months, and she has had 5 double ear infections back to back, when I took her to an ear,eye,throat specialist. She passed her hearing test, and they said the pressure in the air when the pumped it was good. But it is my decision to give it the okay to proceed. What are the effects? What if I don't do the tubes, and she continues getting the ear infections. My mother says cause she is cutting teeth, thats why she is getting the ear infections. She still doesn't have any teeth.
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My husband and I have been together for over 3 years, and never really used protection religiously, and then for the past 10 months we have been actively trying to get pregnant(charting ovulation, counting days) Well I saw my doctor and he told me that if I'm not pregnant by January than he will check into it with more depth, but then today I found out that my mother had trouble getting pregnant as well it took her 5 years and she had to have an ovary removed because of cysts as well as getting her tubes cleaned out. Not only that but I also found out that my older sister took 2 1/2 years to get pregnant. Now if this wasn't enough news I also found out that my husbands uncles(blood uncles) have fertility issues, one took 5 years to conceive the only daughter they have, and another cant have kids at all. I'm wondering if I should be worried that this may run in the family? Should I wait to see my doctor in January or should I make an appointment sooner? What would you do?
im 24 and my husband is 25
My husband and I have been together for over 3 years, and never really used protection religiously, and then for the past 10 months we have been actively trying to get pregnant(charting ovulation, counting days) Well I saw my doctor and he told me that if I'm not pregnant by January than he will check into it with more depth, but then today I found out that my mother had trouble getting pregnant as well it took her 5 years and she had to have an ovary removed because of cysts as well as getting her tubes cleaned out. Not only that but I also found out that my older sister took 2 1/2 years to get pregnant. Now if this wasn't enough news I also found out that my husbands uncles(blood uncles) have fertility issues, one took 5 years to conceive the only daughter they have, and another cant have kids at all. I'm wondering if I should be worried that this may run in the family? Should I wait to see my doctor in January or should I make an appointment sooner? What would you do?
My grandfather in law was diagnosed with Alzheimer's about 3 years ago. He is now in stage 4 and is in the hospital with aspiration pneumonia(they assume) he is unconscious most of the time and is unresponsive. They told my grandmother in law she needed to put a feeding tube in him to keep him alive, she doesn't want to do this so she called her priest of the church she attends and he informed her that is she refuses a feeding tube for her husband they will excommunicate her and refuse him a catholic funeral. Is this correct? My mother in law the daughter of the patient called her catholic church and they said this info was incorrect and that they as a church would not refuse him a catholic funeral or excommunicate the wife. SO who's right? I am a catholic in training i attend mass but i am not in RCIA classes just yet so i don't know alot about the rules of Catholicism but my husband and his whole family were very upset by this one churches stance on not giving my grandfather in law a feeding tube. Which church is right?
My mother in law is 43 years old & is having her second child in the past 2 years. My 2 year old daughter has an uncle 2 months younger than her and an aunt on the way. The biggest problem with this is that all 6 of her children have different fathers except for 2 of them. The thing is I think she has a problem. She asks these men to have babies with her and they say no so she tricks them she tells them she is pregnant so they won't use birth control so she can get pregnant and then they get suspicious when the baby is due a few months after she told them she was pregnant so she writes a fake doctors note saying she had a miscarriage before this REAL pregnancy (she works at a hospital and has access). After getting pregnant she insists they marry her & then they wind up leaving her. She is a single mom with 4 of her 6 kids still living at home. Her almost 2 year old son has problems with being a little slow. After he was born the doctor told her he wanted to tie her tubes because of her age and she flat out refused it & her doctor told her she needed an amio with this one that she is pregnant with because something came back on the ultrasound but she refused it. I guess I really have 2 questions. Should I try to talk to her about her problem? & she already has 3 grandchildren so far would you intentionally keep having babies after your babies were having babies? Accidents happen but these were intentional.
Well the only extremely bad thing I have seen that she does with her children (I say seen but her 11 year old daughter told me this when she stayed the night) is that she makes her children steal for her or them. Her 11 year old told me that her mom made her walk out of the store wearing a $40 coat on and $25 shoes & sunglasses without paying for them she said her mom just tore off the tags and told her to put them all on. I know her mom steal because she always brags about the expensive stuff she gets at a "five finger discount" I don't know what to do because she is my mother in law. My husbands mother. Is it wrong to try to send your mother in law to jail? That's why I've tryed to stay out of all of that.
My mother was 43 when she adopted me at 5 and my brother at 6. It was a rough start and since I was 13 we have not gotten along ever.
My mother was the Helicopter parent. I never had the chance to make many mistakes or "get hurt" because she would swoop down and "Fix it". Also she lived up to the "Mama knows best". She said I am right, because I am the mother. I never had the chance to prove myself because this was "Just how it was done, No If ands or Butts". When I was a teenager, she was the drill Sargent, I MUST DO THIS, I HAVE TO DO THIS WAY and her Way was the only Right way.
Also when I wanted to Try out for Choir, Band,Soccer etc she would say "You can't because you not Fit enough, strong enough etc to do what I wanted to do.
I was never allowed to get my drivers license, I finally did after I turned 19 because I was an adult and decided to. I wasn't allowed to date, or go out with friends.
Now that I am married and expecting my first, things have not gotten any better. She had made comments about me needing my tubes tied because she thinks I won't be as good of mother that she thinks I should be. My Mother was also controlling. She would read through my emails, she would open my mail,go though my book bag ( This was when I was in college).
At 22, I want to have a mother daughter relationship with her, but I don't see how if she can't get over that she is not always right and that he way is not always the best way...
Advice.
Im 29 now with no kids. I start school in august for a medical receptionist then im done in September. I want to start trying to conceive when Im done with school. Im assuming by the time i get pregnant and have the baby, I will already be in a Job ( career ). I want to have a baby so bad my biological clock is ticking and has been for the past year.
A lot of women end up getting maternity leave and never go back to work.
I actually want to Work, and be a mother. Once i get my maternity leave I will stay with the baby for a short time then get right back to work. 9-5 job. My boyfriend of 3 years already has a 9 year old daughter who I have raised and now it is my turn to have a chilf of my own with him
I just suffered an ectopic pregnancy and had to have emergency surgery to remove the pregnancy and my left fallopian tube. I still have my right fallopian tube and I know it may be a struggle to get pregnant but Im hopeful that I will have a baby when its time. Im going to start trying in December 2009 once Im done with school. Is that a good plan? My boyfriend has a good job and my job is going to be a decent one.
IS THERE EVER A GOOD TIME TO GET PREGNANT?
Some people have babies then get a career and vice versa, but some people say there never is a right time. People change when they become parents. Any input is appreciated!
My daughter has some issues and I think either all of her issues can be explained as symptoms to one big issue like some form of a syndrome or she is just really unlucky with a bunch of smaller issues. Here is some of what is wrong
1) She was born with an anterior placed anus (where her butt hole is too close to her girl parts) and it is too small, this causes a lot of bowel issues.
2) Her tear ducts and tubes in her ears are too small, this causes a lot of ear infections and eye infections, she has gotten tubes but so far they have not helped, she still is getting back to back ear infections.
3) Acid reflux
4) Severe respirtory issues. She is constantly sick with upper respirtory infections, constantly snotty, constant cold like symptoms
5) breathing promblems, she has to have a breathing treatment everynight, if she goes a day or so without one she starts to wheeze. Before we started the breathing treatments she would randomly have trouble breathing, turn blue, she was only 2 months old when this started, she is 9 months old now
6)She has a swallowing disorder called Dysphagia, she has trouble swallowing thin liquids. The liquids go into her lungs. We have to thicken all liquids so she wont choke on them
7) with that she has an immature eating style. you first learn to eat with your tongue going in and out to suck, then with baby foods you go up and down and with real solids your tongue should move side to side to push the food to where the molars should be for chewing, They said at nine months she should be moving side to side and her tongue is still stuck in the first stage of going in and out of her mouth
8) 6 and 7 can be because we just found our she has very poor muscle tone in her mouth which causes her tongue to sometimes hang out
9) they are not sure yet but her therapist thinks she has poor muscle tone in her lower trunk which is why she sits like a sideways U she is so hunched over
10) Her PCP said that she was just slightly behind in gross motor skills but a good bit behind in communication
11) she is also anemic and needs iron everyday
Just one of these is enough to worry a new single young mother but when you add all of them together im starting to get a little freaked. Her PCP is kinda dismissive of me (I have changed her dr several times I am having a hard time getting anyone to listen to me) and she has only had one therapy session so far and thats just for the feeding issues and during that evaluation the therapist didnt say anything about thinking that there is a syndrome or something that she has not been dignosed with yet.
Do yall know of any syndrome of something that this could be is my daughter just cursed with a lot of issues (verses one thing that explains everything)
We started trying for a baby when I was 34. I had been careful all my life and had never been pregnant. We started having tests after two years, my husband had a low sperm count and I had one blocked tube. We eventually decided on IVF and two weeks before our first appointment, I was pregnant! We had made love maybe eight times over the three day fertile period. Poor man, he laughs now, saying he thought it was going to drop off. Not too romantic for me either. We certainly were not relaxed, in fact I cried a few times at the unfairness of it all. Our only child is now 6,and I gave birth to her when I was 38. We did try for three years to have another but it never happened. I'm resigned to this now and just so grateful that we have our daughter as she's everything a mother could wish for. Some people have said that I got pregnant because unconsciously, my body had relaxed as it "knew" that IVF was coming and so it didn't have to work so hard. I think that it's because we tried so hard, and that because my exhausted husband's sperm was so fresh, because prior to this last attempt, we had sometimes fallen into the soul-destroying routine of doing it reluctantly, once a month. I would like to hear any else's views on this as I've always wondered. Thanks and good luck to all those trying. It can happen.
so my daughter had tubes put in a few weeks ago. She went in for her 9 month check up and scored the lowest you can score without being below average in communication. so they tested her hearing to see if that is why she has not picked up on any language and she failed her hearing test. I thought that you were suppose to pass after tubes, the tubes got all the fluid build up out so why is she still failing!!??
Also she scored the lowest you can score without being below average in gross motor skills. she is suppose to be pulling up to her feet and walking (side stepping) while holding on to something like the couch. and she isnt, she cant even really stand holding on to something with out me helping her. that really concerns me, I for some reason didnt see that one coming so that took me by shock
also she has a dyphagia (swallowing disorder) problem that she was suppose to out grow by now but isnt and I was told that I needed to start feeding/speech therapy and thicken all her fluids (who wants to drink thick water??)
has anyone gone threw any of this? words of wisdom? I am a young (20) mother, first child
First, what do you think of Brenda Natalie Grace?
Heres the game:
1. You and your husband get married when you are twenty years old. What are your names?
2. Where do you move to?
3. One year later, you find our your pregnant! And you find out it's triplets! You are ecstatic! Nine months later, you give birth to three beautiful girls! You name them after three book/movie/TV show characters (From the same book/movie/TV show). The middle names can be whatever you want.
4. Only three months later, you find out your pregnant again! And this time, twins! And you can't believe it when there's two more girls! Their first names have to start with an "A" and a "Z". And one has two middle names, and the others middle name starts with a "G".
5. One year later, you end up pregnant again! This time a boy! You give him your Absolute favorite boys name!
6. Four months later, you end up pregnant again! This time, with a little girl! You name her after a Shakespeare character, and her middle name is a place.
7. One year later, you decide to try for another child. After two months, its just not happening, so you turn to fertility treatments. You are so short from desperate, you get ten eggs implanted. And to your surprise, you end up with ten! Decaplets! (And yes, you end up in the Guinness Book Of World Records xD) You end up with five girls and five boys!
Their initials are C.M, S.R, R.L, N.D, O.R, H.T, T.J, M.E, N.K, & J.G
8. After two years, and finally losing all the weight from the Decs, you decide to go on a vacation! Where do you go?
9. While on vacay, you come across an orphanage while going for a walk, and just fall in love with a little girl you see! You convince your husband to adopt, and he agrees. You give her a name from the country she's from, so she won't forget her heritage.
10. A TV producer sees you and asks you to do a TV show (Like Jon & Kate Plus Eight) What do you call the show?
11. Five years later, you start to feel sad that you don't have a baby anymore, and convince your husband for one more child. He agrees, and you try once more. But again, nothing happens. You turn to fertility treatments again, and this time you only implant 5 eggs. But, you end up with quintuplets! You couldn't see any other option to go with then keep them. The money from the show, and the world record come in handy now! Their first names must start in F, F, F, A and S. And the middle names, M, M, M, L, and O. All girls, too!
12. After your new daughters, so you change the name of the show?
13. With twenty-three kids, you decide it's enough, and go to get your tubes tied. But the doctor tells you that's imposable because your pregnant! You have a baby boy! You give him a special name because it's your last baby!
14. After your son is born, you decide to get a dog for the kids. You let your kids choose, but they just had to pick a pregnant dog. What's her name? What breed is she?
15. When your dog has puppies, your kids won't stand to sell them, so you keep all five. What do you name them? Three girls, two boys.
16. Now its been a few years, and just the time when you remember that after you had your son, you forgot to get your tubes tied again, so you go to the doctor, and he tells you its impossible, once again, because your pregnant! Your daughter is born premature, so you give her a virtue first name, and her middle name is after your mother.
17. When your forty-three, you stop getting your period because of "the change", but then you start to get sick, and go to the doctor. He tells you, its not "the change", but your pregnant! You have twins! One boy, one girl! One of the puppies got hit by a car, and she was your eldest daughter's favorite, so your daughter's middle name is the dog's name. Your son's name is whatever you want!
1. Sarah & Jackson Whitlock
2. Forks, Washington (Not because of Twilight! I love rain, and small towns!)
3. Alice Monroe, Isabella Dawn & Rosalie Maria (Twilight)
4. Abigail Ivy Madigan & Zeruna Gretchen
5. Noah Garrett
6. Juliet Dallas
7. Cecelia Marie, Summer Rose, Ryleigh Leila, Natalie Deana, Odessa Renee, Henry Taylor, Tyson Joshua, Michael Evan, Nathan Kevin, & Jonas Geoffry
8. Ireland
9. Siobhan Giselle
10. Whitlock Times Twenty
11. Fallon Marie, Fern Michelina, Francesca Lynn, Sloane Odette & Audrey Masen
12. Yes, Whitlock Times Twenty-Five
13. Joseph Adam
14. Princessa
15. Sam, Quil, Emily, Suzie & Makenna
16. Honor Jordana
17. Leah Emily & Emmett Patrick
THIS IS a really important question and yet people are ignoring it! Come on, 10 points people!
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I am standing on a crowded city bus and this annoying mom and her three year-old brat are sitting below me. An elderly gentleman gets on the bus and walks towards us. He looks like he needs to sit down. The mother offers him a seat, but the three year-old girl begins crying and saying "NO! I want to sit here!" The mom tries to get her to listen, but the girl won't budge and sit on her mom's lap. She wants the seat for herself. The mom looks up at the old guy and says "Sorry, she doesn't want to get up." The old man understands- he had to be in his 70s- but I was so upset that the mom almost seemed amused by her daughter. I wasn't. Even though I know it wasn't my place, I turned to the little girl and literally said "How DARE you make him stand up! Get the **** up and let the old guy sit down you spoiled little *****!" (I admit I have anger issues.) The little girl started to cry but didn't move- so I lightly shoved her off the seat, where she fell and began crying. The old man sat down, thanking me, but others on the bus began shouting that I had no right to do that. The mother turned to me and said "I'm calling the cops on you! You don't say that to a little girl!" I shouted back firmly and said "Learn how to ******* control your little kid and teach her respect for older people! He needed to sit down, she could have sat on your lap!" The bus driver stopped the bus and made me get off. I didn't care. Luckily the woman didn't press charges.
My point is- and this is ESPECIALLY to all you white, suburban soccer mom types- why the ****** do you raise your little kids to think they can do what ever they want? So what if they're young. If there's an elder who needs to sit down, you make your little tube monster get the hell out of the seat and let the old person sit down. Why do you moms act like you have to be polite with your bratty kids about everything???
For those who keep commenting on why I didnt give the old man my seat- I WAS STANDING TOO!!! Dont you fucking read? The bus was hella crowded.
I am standing on a crowded city bus and this annoying mom and her three year-old brat are sitting below me. An elderly gentleman gets on the bus and walks towards us. He looks like he needs to sit down. The mother offers him a seat, but the three year-old girl begins crying and saying "NO! I want to sit here!" The mom tries to get her to listen, but the girl won't budge and sit on her mom's lap. She wants the seat for herself. The mom looks up at the old guy and says "Sorry, she doesn't want to get up." The old man understands- he had to be in his 70s- but I was so upset that the mom almost seemed amused by her daughter. I wasn't. Even though I know it wasn't my place, I turned to the little girl and literally said "How DARE you make him stand up! Get the **** up and let the old guy sit down you spoiled little *****!" (I admit I have anger issues.) The little girl started to cry but didn't move- so I lightly shoved her off the seat, where she fell and began crying. The old man sat down, thanking me, but others on the bus began shouting that I had no right to do that. The mother turned to me and said "I'm calling the cops on you! You don't say that to a little girl!" I shouted back firmly and said "Learn how to ******* control your little kid and teach her respect for older people! He needed to sit down, she could have sat on your lap!" The bus driver stopped the bus and made me get off. I didn't care. Luckily the woman didn't press charges.
My point is- and this is ESPECIALLY to all you white, suburban soccer mom types- why the ****** do you raise your little kids to think they can do what ever they want? So what if they're young. If there's an elder who needs to sit down, you make your little tube monster get the hell out of the seat and let the old person sit down. Why do you moms act like you have to be polite with your bratty kids about everything???
I am standing on a crowded city bus and this annoying mom and her three year-old brat are sitting below me. An elderly gentleman gets on the bus and walks towards us. He looks like he needs to sit down. The mother offers him a seat, but the three year-old girl begins crying and saying "NO! I want to sit here!" The mom tries to get her to listen, but the girl won't budge and sit on her mom's lap. She wants the seat for herself. The mom looks up at the old guy and says "Sorry, she doesn't want to get up." The old man understands- he had to be in his 70s- but I was so upset that the mom almost seemed amused by her daughter. I wasn't. Even though I know it wasn't my place, I turned to the little girl and literally said "How DARE you make him stand up! Get the fuck up and let the old guy sit down you spoiled little bitch!" (I admit I have anger issues.) The little girl started to cry but didn't move- so I lightly shoved her off the seat, where she fell and began crying. The old man sat down, thanking me, but others on the bus began shouting that I had no right to do that. The mother turned to me and said "I'm calling the cops on you! You don't say that to a little girl!" I shouted back firmly and said "Learn how to fucking control your little kid and teach her respect for older people! He needed to sit down, she could have sat on your lap!" The bus driver stopped the bus and made me get off. I didn't care. Luckily the woman didn't press charges.
My point is- and this is ESPECIALLY to all you white, suburban soccer mom types- why the FUCKKK do you raise your little kids to think they can do what ever they want? So what if they're young. If there's an elder who needs to sit down, you make your little tube monster get the hell out of the seat and let the old person sit down. Why do you moms act like you have to be polite with your bratty kids about everything???
I'm 18, and last year, my girlfriend who is 17 (was 16 at the time this happened) had our daughter. We felt it was the right decision to give her up for adoption. She is now in very loving arms, and couldn't be happier...Now here is the part where people tend to ask quite a few questions...My parents don't know...After having a long talk with my girlfriend and her parents, we decided it wasn't in any of our best interests to tell them...They are (for lack of a better term) INSANE. I know most of you who read this are probably rolling your your eyes right now but, they honestly are (for example)
When they first met my girlfriend, they had her over for a nice dinner which went quite well, there were laughs exchanged, fun had, and we even had dessert next to our fire pit in our back yard. It was a wonderful night BUT when we walked back inside and sat down in our living room, my step mother said something to Kaitlyn (my girlfriend) If Billy's (me) grades slump, we might have to put an end to this relationship. And Kaitlyn responded with "don't worry I'll keep an eye on him"...Then my step mother replied "WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TALKING TO ME LIKE THAT?! blah blah rawr rawr..."She the preceded to kick me out for the third time and cut my college funding, so now I cannot go to school...BECAUSE OF THAT...
Fast forward 2 1/2 years (i.e. the present) It has become incredibly hard to see my girlfriend considering my parents have blocked her phone number from my house and cell phone, and I am not allowed to go to her house, an she cannot come here... They have recently rifled through my room, finding my cell phone, and the went through that as well, finding out i have called her...They are now threatening to run over to her house and screaming at her parents (for some reason)...We are a very unusual family...
Now that Kaitlyn has had the baby, and we have (reluctantly) given her up, everything has gone down the tube. Every day I fear they will find out, and cut me off from my college funds (again) All i want is to go to school and lead a normal life but they refuse to let me do that...I'm not sure what to do because I just lost my job, and I have no where else to go. the places I used to go to like my grand parents or my aunt, dont want me there anymore. They cant support me, and neither can I. I dont think I can stay with my Girlfriend I feel as if I have put that family through enough. They have been very supportive of me, and have always tried to help me, but I feel as if ive harmed them far too much...So now I've come to the internet for guidance. Any help is much appreciated....
I have two step children who are 5 girl and 7 boy and two children 17 months boy, and 1 1/2 months girl with my husband. My husband was never married to the older children's mother, but he was with her for about 6 years off and on. I have been married to him for almost 2 years.
No matter how much I do for the older kids, my husband and everyone else in his family says that I hate them. I'm sick and tired of it. I dont hate them but I do hate the situation that I have to deal with. I bend over backwards for them, take them places, and treat them the same as I would my own two kids. The are manipulative and lie about things and only I see it. For example, the girl put safety pins in my sons crib when he was a eleven months and the boy saw her do it but lied about it at first. My husband thinks it was an accident...yea the girl had to climb to get the safety pins off the top of a tall computer desk so you tell me.
They are here every other week and get sick almost every time they are here and never want to eat ne thing my husband or I make. We make good meals from scratch. The kids either puke or have diarrhea at least once during the week and they have also been tested for allergies...no allergies except the girl is allergic to dust and mold so we got her allergy free pillow and bed coverings. The doc said that she thinks that they do this because they have no stability and should not be going back and forth every other week bc it is way to hard on them. AND I AGREE.
My husband leaves them in my care but gets irritated when I discipline them. He also yells at me in front of them saying that I don't wanna be their mom...and ya wonder why they lash out. I'm tired of it. I wish that he would take care of them more (we both work) or have them only every other weekend so that we AND I can have some sanity and them have some stability. My husband wont seem to budge on it though. I feel as though our marriage is going down the tubes no matter how much I try to make it as smooth as possible while the kids are at our house. And yes the kids have a substantial place and room for their things but they have to share a room with our kids bc we only have a 3 bedroom house.
Its not like I want them out of my life...but this every other week thing is a strain on everyone involved but my husband only thinks of himself. He doesnt give those kids attention..I am the only one doing it...and its damn clear they resent it and act out.
Yes I know that I married into it...but I had no idea it was going to be hell and that my husband was going to not support me in decisions I make when it comes to them. he never made me totally take over til I said I do. For example he has yelled at me for not taking his son to school when I was in the middle of breast feeding our daughter even though he was home. Excuse me, but I dont think thats right. He should never yell at me for things like that. Its not my fault that they cant ride the bus to school cuz they are not in our school district...again this would be solved by having the kids only on the weekends.
Does anyone else feel me here with these problems or have a suggestion to deal with it?
I have two step children who are 5 girl and 7 boy and two children 17 months boy, and 1 1/2 months girl with my husband. My husband was never married to the older children's mother, but he was with her for about 6 years off and on. I have been married to him for almost 2 years.
No matter how much I do for the older kids, my husband and everyone else in his family says that I hate them. I'm sick and tired of it. I dont hate them but I do hate the situation that I have to deal with. I bend over backwards for them, take them places, and treat them the same as I would my own two kids. The are manipulative and lie about things and only I see it. For example, the girl put safety pins in my sons crib when he was a eleven months and the boy saw her do it but lied about it at first. My husband thinks it was an accident...yea the girl had to climb to get the safety pins off the top of a tall computer desk so you tell me.
They are here every other week and get sick almost every time they are here and never want to eat ne thing my husband or I make. We make good meals from scratch. The kids either puke or have diarrhea at least once during the week and they have also been tested for allergies...no allergies except the girl is allergic to dust and mold so we got her allergy free pillow and bed coverings. The doc said that she thinks that they do this because they have no stability and should not be going back and forth every other week bc it is way to hard on them. AND I AGREE.
My husband leaves them in my care but gets irritated when I discipline them. He also yells at me in front of them saying that I don't wanna be their mom...and ya wonder why they lash out. I'm tired of it. I wish that he would take care of them more (we both work) or have them only every other weekend so that we AND I can have some sanity and them have some stability. My husband wont seem to budge on it though. I feel as though our marriage is going down the tubes no matter how much I try to make it as smooth as possible while the kids are at our house. And yes the kids have a substantial place and room for their things but they have to share a room with our kids bc we only have a 3 bedroom house.
Its not like I want them out of my life...but this every other week thing is a strain on everyone involved but my husband only thinks of himself. He doesnt give those kids attention..I am the only one doing it...and its damn clear they resent it and act out.
Yes I know that I married into it...but I had no idea it was going to be hell and that my husband was going to not support me in decisions I make when it comes to them. he never made me totally take over til I said I do. For example he has yelled at me for not taking his son to school when I was in the middle of breast feeding our daughter even though he was home. Excuse me, but I dont think thats right. He should never yell at me for things like that. Its not my fault that they cant ride the bus to school cuz they are not in our school district...again this would be solved by having the kids only on the weekends.
Does anyone else feel me here with these problems or have a suggestion to deal with it?
I have two step children who are 5 girl and 7 boy and two children 17 months boy, and 1 1/2 months girl with my husband. My husband was never married to the older children's mother, but he was with her for about 6 years off and on. I have been married to him for almost 2 years.
No matter how much I do for the older kids, my husband and everyone else in his family says that I hate them. I'm sick and tired of it. I dont hate them but I do hate the situation that I have to deal with. I bend over backwards for them, take them places, and treat them the same as I would my own two kids. The are manipulative and lie about things and only I see it. For example, the girl put safety pins in my sons crib when he was a eleven months and the boy saw her do it but lied about it at first. My husband thinks it was an accident...yea the girl had to climb to get the safety pins off the top of a tall computer desk so you tell me.
They are here every other week and get sick almost every time they are here and never want to eat ne thing my husband or I make. We make good meals from scratch. The kids either puke or have diarrhea at least once during the week and they have also been tested for allergies...no allergies except the girl is allergic to dust and mold so we got her allergy free pillow and bed coverings. The doc said that she thinks that they do this because they have no stability and should not be going back and forth every other week bc it is way to hard on them. AND I AGREE.
My husband leaves them in my care but gets irritated when I discipline them. He also yells at me in front of them saying that I don't wanna be their mom...and ya wonder why they lash out. I'm tired of it. I wish that he would take care of them more (we both work) or have them only every other weekend so that we AND I can have some sanity and them have some stability. My husband wont seem to budge on it though. I feel as though our marriage is going down the tubes no matter how much I try to make it as smooth as possible while the kids are at our house. And yes the kids have a substantial place and room for their things but they have to share a room with our kids bc we only have a 3 bedroom house.
Its not like I want them out of my life...but this every other week thing is a strain on everyone involved but my husband only thinks of himself. He doesnt give those kids attention..I am the only one doing it...and its damn clear they resent it and act out.
Yes I know that I married into it...but I had no idea it was going to be hell and that my husband was going to not support me in decisions I make when it comes to them. he never made me totally take over til I said I do. For example he has yelled at me for not taking his son to school when I was in the middle of breast feeding our daughter even though he was home. Excuse me, but I dont think thats right. He should never yell at me for things like that. Its not my fault that they cant ride the bus to school cuz they are not in our school district...again this would be solved by having the kids only on the weekends.
Does anyone else feel me here with these problems or have a suggestion to deal with it?
My husband does not help with the kids at all. He is reluctant to tuck them in and says that they are big enough to go to bed themselves...for christs sakes the kids are lookin for a little security...they dont want it from me...they want it from him. You should see the look on their faces when Im the only one that tucks them in.They resent it plain and simple...if they aren't gettin the attention they need from their dad, why should i have to be the one doing everything for them...its not right or fair...they could be taken care of mainly by their real mother and come to visit us on the weekends. During summer and holidays might be different since they wont be in school. But while in school, i think they both need stability!
I have two step children who are 5 girl and 7 boy and two children 17 months boy, and 1 1/2 months girl with my husband. My husband was never married to the older children's mother, but he was with her for about 6 years off and on. I have been married to him for almost 2 years.
No matter how much I do for the older kids, my husband and everyone else in his family says that I hate them. I'm sick and tired of it. I dont hate them but I do hate the situation that I have to deal with. I bend over backwards for them, take them places, and treat them the same as I would my own two kids. The are manipulative and lie about things and only I see it. For example, the girl put safety pins in my sons crib when he was a eleven months and the boy saw her do it but lied about it at first. My husband thinks it was an accident...yea the girl had to climb to get the safety pins off the top of a tall computer desk so you tell me.
They are here every other week and get sick almost every time they are here and never want to eat ne thing my husband or I make. We make good meals from scratch. The kids either puke or have diarrhea at least once during the week and they have also been tested for allergies...no allergies except the girl is allergic to dust and mold so we got her allergy free pillow and bed coverings. The doc said that she thinks that they do this because they have no stability and should not be going back and forth every other week bc it is way to hard on them. AND I AGREE.
My husband leaves them in my care but gets irritated when I discipline them. He also yells at me in front of them saying that I don't wanna be their mom...and ya wonder why they lash out. I'm tired of it. I wish that he would take care of them more (we both work) or have them only every other weekend so that we AND I can have some sanity and them have some stability. My husband wont seem to budge on it though. I feel as though our marriage is going down the tubes no matter how much I try to make it as smooth as possible while the kids are at our house. And yes the kids have a substantial place and room for their things but they have to share a room with our kids bc we only have a 3 bedroom house.
Its not like I want them out of my life...but this every other week thing is a strain on everyone involved but my husband only thinks of himself. He doesnt give those kids attention..I am the only one doing it...and its damn clear they resent it and act out.
Yes I know that I married into it...but I had no idea it was going to be hell and that my husband was going to not support me in decisions I make when it comes to them. he never made me totally take over til I said I do. For example he has yelled at me for not taking his son to school when I was in the middle of breast feeding our daughter even though he was home. Excuse me, but I dont think thats right. He should never yell at me for things like that. Its not my fault that they cant ride the bus to school cuz they are not in our school district...again this would be solved by having the kids only on the weekends.
Does anyone else feel me here with these problems or have a suggestion to deal with it?
I have two step children who are 5 girl and 7 boy and two children 17 months boy, and 1 1/2 months girl with my husband. My husband was never married to the older children's mother, but he was with her for about 6 years off and on. I have been married to him for almost 2 years.
No matter how much I do for the older kids, my husband and everyone else in his family says that I hate them. I'm sick and tired of it. I dont hate them but I do hate the situation that I have to deal with. I bend over backwards for them, take them places, and treat them the same as I would my own two kids. The are manipulative and lie about things and only I see it. For example, the girl put safety pins in my sons crib when he was a eleven months and the boy saw her do it but lied about it at first. My husband thinks it was an accident...yea the girl had to climb to get the safety pins off the top of a tall computer desk so you tell me.
They are here every other week and get sick almost every time they are here and never want to eat ne thing my husband or I make. We make good meals from scratch. The kids either puke or have diarrhea at least once during the week and they have also been tested for allergies...no allergies except the girl is allergic to dust and mold so we got her allergy free pillow and bed coverings. The doc said that she thinks that they do this because they have no stability and should not be going back and forth every other week bc it is way to hard on them. AND I AGREE.
My husband leaves them in my care but gets irritated when I discipline them. He also yells at me in front of them saying that I don't wanna be their mom...and ya wonder why they lash out. I'm tired of it. I wish that he would take care of them more (we both work) or have them only every other weekend so that we AND I can have some sanity and them have some stability. My husband wont seem to budge on it though. I feel as though our marriage is going down the tubes no matter how much I try to make it as smooth as possible while the kids are at our house. And yes the kids have a substantial place and room for their things but they have to share a room with our kids bc we only have a 3 bedroom house.
Its not like I want them out of my life...but this every other week thing is a strain on everyone involved but my husband only thinks of himself. He doesnt give those kids attention..I am the only one doing it...and its damn clear they resent it and act out.
Yes I know that I married into it...but I had no idea it was going to be hell and that my husband was going to not support me in decisions I make when it comes to them. he never made me totally take over til I said I do. For example he has yelled at me for not taking his son to school when I was in the middle of breast feeding our daughter even though he was home. Excuse me, but I dont think thats right. He should never yell at me for things like that. Its not my fault that they cant ride the bus to school cuz they are not in our school district...again this would be solved by having the kids only on the weekends.
Does anyone else feel me here with these problems or have a suggestion to deal with it?
I have two step children who are 5 girl and 7 boy and two children 17 months boy, and 1 1/2 months girl with my husband. My husband was never married to the older children's mother, but he was with her for about 6 years off and on. I have been married to him for almost 2 years.
No matter how much I do for the older kids, my husband and everyone else in his family says that I hate them. I'm sick and tired of it. I dont hate them but I do hate the situation that I have to deal with. I bend over backwards for them, take them places, and treat them the same as I would my own two kids. The are manipulative and lie about things and only I see it. For example, the girl put safety pins in my sons crib when he was a eleven months and the boy saw her do it but lied about it at first. My husband thinks it was an accident...yea the girl had to climb to get the safety pins off the top of a tall computer desk so you tell me.
They are here every other week and get sick almost every time they are here and never want to eat ne thing my husband or I make. We make good meals from scratch. The kids either puke or have diarrhea at least once during the week and they have also been tested for allergies...no allergies except the girl is allergic to dust and mold so we got her allergy free pillow and bed coverings. The doc said that she thinks that they do this because they have no stability and should not be going back and forth every other week bc it is way to hard on them. AND I AGREE.
My husband leaves them in my care but gets irritated when I discipline them. He also yells at me in front of them saying that I don't wanna be their mom...and ya wonder why they lash out. I'm tired of it. I wish that he would take care of them more (we both work) or have them only every other weekend so that we AND I can have some sanity and them have some stability. My husband wont seem to budge on it though. I feel as though our marriage is going down the tubes no matter how much I try to make it as smooth as possible while the kids are at our house. And yes the kids have a substantial place and room for their things but they have to share a room with our kids bc we only have a 3 bedroom house.
Its not like I want them out of my life...but this every other week thing is a strain on everyone involved but my husband only thinks of himself. He doesnt give those kids attention..I am the only one doing it...and its damn clear they resent it and act out.
Yes I know that I married into it...but I had no idea it was going to be hell and that my husband was going to not support me in decisions I make when it comes to them. he never made me totally take over til I said I do. For example he has yelled at me for not taking his son to school when I was in the middle of breast feeding our daughter even though he was home. Excuse me, but I dont think thats right. He should never yell at me for things like that. Its not my fault that they cant ride the bus to school cuz they are not in our school district...again this would be solved by having the kids only on the weekends.
Does anyone else feel me here with these problems or have a suggestion to deal with it?
And my hubby says they come to our house to see "us" not just him....and he says that there should understand his lack of time for them bc he works a tough job and needs his "down" time when he's home...is this totally fair?? :(
My mom is cheating on my dad what should I do!?
I am a 15 year old girl and an only child. My moms an alcoholic and we have never gotten along. Ever since I was a little girl, my mom has told me that I'm fat or not pretty enough or 'don't care about myself' just because I don't wear makeup and do my hair daily for school--I go to an all girls high school--She has also always complained to me about how much of a 'dick-head' my dad is etc. She and my dad are constantly fighting, but me and my dad and I are really really close. Last year, I found out she was having an affair with an old college boyfriend when I accidentally opened an email the two had been sending. When I confronted her, she blew it off and then got mad at me for reading her email. She made up excuses ie he didnt give her sex, money, the right love etc--things a mother should never talk to her teenage daughter about-- and while I admit that my dad can be a little unkind/inconsiderate sometimes, he a good man to her and to me. Finally one night I was crying my eyes out and she promised that she would end it, and I foolishly believed her. About a week or two after this, I realized she had gotten a new yahoo email account with a password--we have roadrunner--and I thought of the affair, but I told myself if was being paranoid. Today, I was looking for a paper to print off that I had sent to her email and she had left her account signed in. When I went to the inbox to print off the paper, I saw the same blackberry email address again and again. I got really mad and started reading them and they were all about sex and my mom asked him if he was free Saturday morning and he said yes and she said that she would be there. When I first found out about the affair, I told my then best friend and she told me that I HAD to tell my dad, but I was scared and said nothing. Now, I want to tell my dad, but I'm still scared. If I tell him, they will probably get a divorce and the judge might make me live with my mom, which is something I NEVER want to do. My mom always yells at me for 'starting ****' between her and my dad, and I'm afraid that she might be able to convince him that that's all I'm doing. What should I do??? Also, I am no longer friends with the only person I told, so I have no one to talk to. My friends have notice that I've been acting weird but I'm afriad to tell any of them why because I'm afraid they won't understand. My school only has academic couselors, so that's ruled out. Unfortunatly, I think the guy is also married, and I know he has kids. I also don't have any relatives that live even remotely close to me and I am too young to drive myself to a friends house and since I havn't told anyone, I technically have no reason to stay with anyone except my family. I havn't confronted my mom since I found out the affair is still going on. I thought we had been getting along better and her drinking had kinda slowed down a little bit...now all the "progress" is ruined all because of something I wasn't even supposed to know about. And I am also worried about the judges decision because my dad works nights. You can see where I'm coming from. My parents got married at an older age--38 and 46-- my mom had already been divorced once and I know my mom wasn't pregnant with me at the time they got married because I am invetro--test tube baby
Before I elaborate I just wanted to ask that you guys not judge me. I never wanted to be a single mother. It's not what I wanted for myself or my children. Like I stated above I never wanted to be a single mom.My dream was to meet a nice guy, fall in love and get married etc. Well, that didn't happen. I am a single mom of a 3 year old and soon to be daughter. My sons father and I had a great relationship and we were together for a long time until he started selling and using drugs. The love we had just faded away and I chose to leave because I did not agree with what he was doing. I was single for a awhile until I reconnected with an old boyfriend from years ago. We fell back in love and everything was going well til he found out I was pregnant. He wanted me to get an abortion and I thought about it for a long while but I just could not do it. I never believed in abortion and I just couldn't kill my child. So he ended up leaving and has not really been there for me through my whole pregnancy. I have a lot of emotions but I mainly feel stupid. It's already hard with one child and now I am about to have another one without any help and support. Sometimes I think that maybe I should have gotten an abortion but I know that it's way too late now. I know that sometimes things don't work out in life and sometimes relationships don't work out. I got over my sons father but I never thought I would be a single mom a second time. I feel really disgusted with myself and I don't know how to stop feeling that way. My question is how do I stop feeling so bad about myself because my kids will have two different fathers? THANKS!
I have already made the decision that after I have my daughter I am getting my tubes tied. I just feel like I can't keep on having children with men and then they decide to leave.
ok here goes...
This lady is F***ING crazy! I think so anyways. She has 10 children. She doesnt take care of any of them, she pawns them off on her husband. She doesnt attend any of their school events. She has 10 kids by 6 dads(maybe). She has lied to each one of them and said their dad is someone else, and when its covienent for her she will tell them the truth. I am very close to all her kids and they have all expressed a hatred for their mom. I think they have lots of mental issues and have had a pretty dang sad life. She tells her daughters they are chunky or picks on them about their developing bodies. Except for her youngest daughter who she will allow to make rude comments and behave out of control. And the boys can do no wrong. They are totally out of control. She is a horrible excuse for a parent. Not only that shes done alot of other shady thing, like she lied to the college shes attending and said she compleeted high school, and has been taking classes online in order to avoid direct contact with people at the school. shes been doing it for almost 2 years and they just now caught her. A few years ago she made up a FAKE baby, to try and get back with one of her ex's. She was a photographer at a local walmart, and she would steal pics of newborn babies, and send them to her ex(he lived in another state). And then when her ex was starting to suspect that she was lying, she said that the baby died in a car wreck with her husband, and even went as far as to clip out a news paper article about a infant who died in a car accident to her EX. Thats not the end of it shes done soo many F***ed up things to mention. But you get the idea shes fucked in her head. Yet she has managed to get a foster care liscence, She doesnt even take care of the ones she has. Her husband is a sheriff in town and no one here likes her. and they can tell something is "off" about her. I just dont understand how shes getting away with this,shes never been in trouble with the law, no one ever confronts her. Just recently shes been approved to have IVF. to have another baby. But shes already had her tubes tie, and the insureance wasnt supposed to pay for it but of course she lied and said she didnt have a tubal ligation or whatever. Its not jsut that she already has alot of children that she doenst take care of, I just cant stomach seeing her bring another child in this world. Is there anyway to get some one to believe me about her! how can i stop her! shes using all my money to pay the out of pocket cost for this proceidure. I think shes obsessed with having babies. I really think its some kind of mental illness. Is it?
Im sorry this is so long,
here are my questions now that u know a little history..
Can I contact her health care provider and let them know whats goin on? and do u think they will even listen? How or who can I talk to about her, Karma has to catch up to her? and Any advice on how to deal im about to go crazy!!!!!!! thanks in advance
"So, what are you planning on wearing?" Elisha Carpenter asked her best friend, Holly Jensen, who was propped on top of her four-poster bed, dangling her small feet off the edge of the bed.
"Jeez, I dunno," Holly said breezily, clad in her sheer tank top and pink pajama bottoms.
"Maybe that brand new green top I got at Charlotte Russe." she continued. "You know, the one that flares from the bottom?"
Elisha nodded, adjusting her red bra straps.
"Has Mark called?" she asked. "My bitch of a mom took away my iphone, so now I'm phoneless."
Mark was Elisha's nine-month boyfriend. They had met through Holly because Holly knew Mark's best friend, Carter Siegle. It was during a social gathering and Elisha and Mark hit it off almost immediately. However, their personalities contrasted signifigantly. While Elisha was wild, outgoing, and hyper, Mark was laid back, sarcastic, and only talked to the ones who he knew well.
Mark had his charm. He looked like a dark-blond David Cassidy with his curly hair. Especially since he sort of looked like a time traveller from the nineteen-seventies. Which is why Elisha had fallen for him. She loved his curly hair. She could play with it everyday (if Mark would let her of course).
"No, sorry." Holly said. "You'll see him today, don't worry."
"I know!" Elisha emphasized. "But I can't wait for forty more minutes! Aargh!"
"Well, call him then." Holly said, handing Elisha her green AT&T keyboard cell phone.
She couldn't believe how illogical Elisha was.
"Thank you!" Elisha said in her cutesy voice.
She pressed the number "five" and put the phone to her ears.
Three rings later, a guy's groggy, slightly-mature voice answered.
"Hello?"
"Hey, Mark." Elisha said. "What are we planning on doing for our nine-month anniversary?"
The other end was silent for a few seconds and then Mark said, "You're serious? You call me up at six fifty-one in the morning just to ask me about our anniversary?"
"Mark, I want this to be special." Elisha whined.
Holly rolled her sapphire eyes. She was tired of Elisha's constant obsession about the stupid nine-month anniversary. All Mark was going to do was take her to The Lake, serve dinner (pizza), and then make out. Not really romantic.
Her idea of a romantic date was going to a fancy Italian restraunt with roses on the table and waiters who keep refilling your water glass. But so far, that hasn't happen with her and her current boyfriend, Peter Mahon.
When Elisha finished talking to Mark, she zipped up her denim skirt and checked for lint on her cream babydoll top. She flipped her long blond hair and tied it into a high, perky ponytail. When she was done, she walked over to the full length mirror and spun around.
"How do I look?" she asked.
"Like a hot runway model." Holly said, winking at her.
Elisha smiled and hugged Holly.
"Hey, Holly, you're out of toothpaste." Holly and Elisha's other best friend, Reese McKee, said, emerging from the bathroom.
She was wearing her floral beige daydress with white sandals underneath. She had a sisterly resemblence to Elisha; brownish-blond hair, golden skin, and light-brown eyes.
Sighing, Holly dugged into her toiletries bag and pulled out a fresh tube of toothpaste.
"Here." she said irritably.
"Thank yeeeeeeee!" Reese said, bouncing back to the bathroom.
When she was done brushing her teeth, she came back out looking fresh and healthy.
"Man, I can wait for high school." she sighed, falling onto Holly's bed.
"Watch it!" Holly snapped. "This a Raymond Waites Cabolina Comforter set."
"Well, sorry, your majesty." Reese said, sighing.
Holly was always overreacting. Like just the other day, all three of them were at Carter Siegle's house partying with their other friends; Courtney Hofstadter, Danielle Klasky, Damien Marshall, Dominque Ogilvy, Evan Cross, Stephany Dice, Lucas Hale, Andy Gerteisen, and Maris Fields. It had been a terrific night, until Evan accidentally threw up all over Holly's brand new, limited edition Coach sandals. They were golden and Evan had tainted them. She didn't completely blame her. She knew it was Evan's first time drinking cocktails and it made her sick to her stomach. The rest had been drinking since the eigth grade New Years Eve party. They were all careful and responsible to not get drunk, but they knew if their parents were to ever catch them drinking, they would be sent to seperate schools.
Anyways, Holly began to scream about how her mother had been to every store in Indiana looking for those shoes. She finally had to fly all the way to Maybeline, New York to obtain a pair. All for her daughter's fifteenth birthday. It was not that big of a deal. They were washable.
Holly took a red streak from her dark-brown hair and chewed on it. She had already put on her Charlotte Russe top and denim shorts. She looked like a bored, know-it-all, five-four girl
most of you know the story already out of Albuquerque, New Mexico. 23-year-old Tiffany Toribio is accused of killing her 3-year-old son Tyruss a�?Tya�? Toribio. Ty was found partially buried in a playground and for a week police were asking if anyone knew the boy. Toribo was kicked out of both her mothera��s house and a friends house allegedly because she was ignoring her own son. She and her son were then wandering the streets. Ia��m going to let the article do the rest of the talking because I dona��t know if I can type it out.
The police chief said Toribio told detectives that she suffocated her son in Alvarado Park before dawn on May 13 by putting her hand over his mouth and nose. She said she had second thoughts and performed CPR on the boy, resuscitating him, but reconsidered and smothered him again. Investigators said she then buried him under the climbing gyma��s hanging bridge, where the body was found two days later.
a�?What makes this story especially sad was when asked the reason why she took Tya��s life, Tiffany said that she did not want him to grow up with no one caring about him the same way that she had grown up with no one caring about her,a�? said Police Chief Ray Schultz, his eyes watery and his voice thick with emotion.
I have a lot of daggers Ia��d like to throw right now but Ia��m not going to. Instead Ia��m going to send well wishes to the men and women of the Albuquerque Police Department who had to deal with such an atrocity.
here is another one:
Cleveland mother arrested after leaving 2-year-old home alone:
28-year-old Valencia Davis of Cleveland, Ohio was arrested on child endangerment charges. Davis has a 2-year-old daughter who has cerebral palsy and requires a feeding tube. Davis is accused of leaving the girl home alone hooked up to an empty feeding tube.
The girla��s father has a restraining order against him barring him from the house but was concerned for the childa��s safety and went inside anyway.
Officers found the 2-year-old unresponsive, with dried mucus on her face, and living in filthy conditions, the report said. Officers searched the house and did not find any food, except for cereal strewn on the floor.
And now for the best part. Davis arrived home while everyone was waiting for the paramedics and yelled at the baby daddy for calling police. Davis claims that shea��s the victim and that there was nothing wrong of leaving the girl home alone.
any comments?
My step-daughter's mother has informed me that next week my step-daughter will be undergoing surgery to remove the one ear tube that did not fall out on it's own and at the same time put two new ones in. Her old tubes were put in over two years ago and one fell out last year. The other one is still in place, but the doctor said it needs to come out. They want to put two new ones in because she is still having trouble with ear infections and drainage issues.
Is this normal?
It just sounds silly to me to take one out, just to replace it with a new one. I can't talk to the doctor about it for obvious reasons- her mother brings her to the doctor not me. Also I live in another state.
Also- she told me that once the new ones are in, she is not allowed to go swimming (even with the ear putty plugs that we normally use) for exactly one month following the surgery. Is that the usual advice?
She is having this done the week before she comes to stay with us in Florida for a month, so needless to say we are upset that she will not be able to go swimming the entire time she is out here. :(
i bathe with my son who is 13 months old, from what i can tell alot of mothers do so, i do because i am 35 weeks pregnant & can not bend over the tube very well, normaly i do not... but would u find it the same if a father bathed with his 13 month old daughter?
i dont have a daughter & my husband doesnt bathe with our kids I have just heard some people sugest things if the male is batheing with the kids & i am just asking everyones oppion
ok i know i wont hear the end of it and that is fine, i believe everybody is entitle to an opinion.
I'm a mother of two happily married for 5 years... my daughter is three and my son is 1. I'm currently active duty military and my husband works full time as well, and we both are full time students taking online classes, since campus was out the questions because we treasure the time with our babies. They are in daycare the times we work. after i had my son, i tied my tubes because i wasnt planing no more babies. I found out i got deployed to iraq in february, not knowing i was pregnant. I found out i was pregnant 3 weeks ago, and was sent back home. which i'm glad because i missed my family. I truly dont want to have another kid. Fist of all financially we are not in the position of doing it. I cannot afford to pay 2500 a month of daycare that is for three kids. I just cant quit my job, because it provides my family with awesome insurance, and the benefits are great. If that happens i wont be able to take care of my kids like i would like to. Im just wondering if anybody had an abortion at 16 weeks. i would of done it earlier but i didnt know. my husband and i talked about it and we just cant afford another baby. adoption is not an option. to me that is worse than an abortion. How would i know that my kid will be ok.. i couldnt do that. and i know u all going to say. well u rather kill a human being. well is a fetus. not yet a baby. he is not living on its own. I just wana know if anybody did it and tell me how it was. the healing process. and all that. thanx... is not excuses. is just that i dont want to bring a kid to the world to suffer. I dont have family like many fortunate families where they can take care of your children, and i dont think it will be their responsibility anyway.
Wow. Ok no I'm not looking for somebody to agree with me I just wanted to know what is the recovery on it. I gave a bit of bacgeounf cuz I know people love to judge. No I can't quit my job my husband makes 2200 a moth and mortgage is 1250 car is 350 and bills and food? I mean no my job is not an option. Unless we go on walfare and we won't even qualify because somehow 2200 is enough. Hmm adoption. If I had that child to the end no I couldn't just give him or her away. To me is worse and for those who can read deails. I did think I got my tubes tied. I mean is not like I wasn't trying to prevent it. Thanx for the ones that actually answer my question. Not just judge because of their own personal beliefs. No I don't believe in god no I don't go to church I do love my family. And no I can't afford the daycare. Oh that us the cheapest daycare here in vegas. Unfortunately vagas is not a family oriented state and help is very limited. Believe me I looked.
My daughter turned breech on my last week and the doctor informed me that if she does not turn in the next two weeks *me doing rocking and everything i can and her doing a manual turn attempt* i will have to have a c-section. I'm terrified i feel so helpless in this situation, i hate surgeries i've never had one didn't think i'd need this one. She was head down and now she's butt first. The doctor says i only have a 20 percent chance of her turning and i just can't seem to be happy about anything with the prospect of a c-section. I watched a video on it but it didn't really go through much of anything. I just saw that they tie down your arms and there are tubes all over the place and its just plain uncomfortable looking. What can i expect if i have to go through with this what do they do, my mother is sugar coating it for me and its ticking me off.
One of the nurses i work with her arms were tied down i don't know why but they were. she didn't say much past that but that made me very nervous.
i did not say it was the end of the world i said i was scared i'll do what i have to for my child. Thanks for the common knowledge i was more or less looking personal experiences that could give me some insight into the whole process like what to expect before surgery and after..
Isn't adoption about helping children that need homes and not about giving a newborn to a couple incapable of producing their own.
Sorry I am still not over having to change churches because I feel uncomfortable there because a deacon of my soon to be ex church wanted to adopt my unborn (now 4 month old daughter) when I was a month pregnant. I'm sorry he can't adopt from an agency or foster care because he has a felony conviction on his record. But what did I do so wrong that I should have given him and his wife a baby?
I am sorry my children are mine. She is my third and last. I got my tubes clamped after her so I am not planning to have any more. I have a stable home for them. I can afford all my kids so why is it wrong of me to keep my baby? Is it because I am young? I am 23 married and a mother of 3 with a full time job. What is wrong with that?
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